Would you consider yourself a success at divorce? Yes, that might be an unusual take on the matter, but evaluating your performance as you go through your uncontested divorce might actually give you key insights into your personality and future goals. Florida couples who are currently in the midst of mediation or negotiation for child custody and other matters should stop to consider what factors might help them improve their divorce success.
To get a strong perspective on your life after you go through your divorce, you will need to quiet those little negative voices in your head that tell you that you simply cannot succeed after a break-up. Those voices are known as "saboteurs" to experts. The little nagging, negative voices are only likely to bring you down if you listen to them, so try to stay positive instead. You do not have to react to every small worry that could potentially turn into a full-blown, festering panic. Instead, remain calm and try to look on the bright side.